Philipe and Maryline are immediately warm and have mischievous, smiling eyes. Their son, D, is 11 but he is such tall, skinny kid that appears to be at least 13 or 14. He plays the accordion and has a flare for the dramatic, altnerating constantly between tears and laughter and vying for the attention of everyone in the room. Not an hour goes by that he doesn't fly into a fit of rage and get screamed at (literally) by his parents. I find myself wondering constantly how someone who gets yelled at and corrected for every mistep came to be such a brat in the first place. I guess it's a chicken or egg question, in the end.
The accent in the Southwest is very hard for me to understand- 'in,' normally pronounced as a nasal 'ah' are pronounced as 'aing.' So for example, pain becomes 'paing,' and vin becomes 'vaing,' and so on. Thanks to Marylines constantly muttering and cussing mother, Rose, the example of this peculiarity I hear most often is 'ah PUTAING!'
Mamie Rose quickly became my favorite person in the household, not because I find her general pessimism and perma-exhaustion amusing at her expense, but because it's interspersed with incredible warmth, humor and above all, mischief. One minute she might be shuffling around the corner of the room she never leaves to reach for a vegetable peeler, the next, she may drop it and exclaim 'ah MERDE' and the next, she'll make eye contact and start to laugh. Maryline, however, has no patience at all for her mother. Whenever M.Rose opens her mouth, M. berates her. It's actually quite awkward and sad, though perhaps it's just a family dynamic that I don't understand.
My day to day tasks were pretty varied, though generally I helped Philippe to take measurements in the winery, clean various tanks and pump grapes around in the morning. Then I would return to the house to help Mamie Rose prepare lunch (which she capable of doing herself but only with profound frustration with whatever she was chopping, washing or peeling.) Typically lunch would start off with apples, or a
radis noir- a tubular, charred-black radish about the size of a rutabaga with butter and salt. A raw salad of a single vegetable- usually carrots, beets or turnips in vinaigrette and lots of garlic- would follow, and then cooked vegetables- roasted tomatoes stuffed with bread, garlic, and parlsey, for example, or green beans sauteed with onion. We'd clean our plates with some bread and then there might be dessert, but there was always at least two and usually three glasses of different wines to drink, so that it was difficult to get motivated to get back to work.
After lunch I might return to the cave with P., or we might off to the vines to do some weeding, clean some machinery or tanks. I might also do some bottling or labelling, or work in the garden.
P.'s mother is as delightful as Marylines, but decidedly less subversive. I enjoyed talking with her immensley, and once I acclimated a bit to her accent, flapping dentures and rapid fire delivery, I had the good forture to hear her talk a bit about her experience during 'the war of 39,' in the same village. She recounted to me how during the war, there was no bread to be had, and families would get their ration of flour from a nearby mill and make bread at home, which she described with horror as 'hard work.' I found this amusing not only because I enjoy making bread as a hobby, but because this is a woman who in her late sixties continues to bust her butt on the winery- constantly hovering around Philippe and I and attempting to exert herself far beyond what any person weighing less than an average sized halloween pumpkin should.
ChabrolAnother intersting culinary tradition of the Southwestern culture in France is Chabrol. It sounds semitic, but it's occitan, and there are lots of songs and sayings about it and it seems to be ubiquitous. So when in the Southwest of France, your hosts will be impressed when you don't react with surprise when someone reaches over and pours a generous bowlful of wine into your nearly empty soupbowl. Swirl it around, put your lips to the bowl and drink it with a smile.
Leaving Puy L'Eveque
I spent the weekend with old(ish) friends, Bruno and Maxime, just outside Montpellier. These guys are displaced Parisiens trying to strike out on their own as the founders of Aeropaint.fr . If you every find yourself in the Montpellier area and hungry for some, well, paintballing, look them up. They very kindly played host and even delivered me to the doorstep of my Aunt and Uncle's home in Saints, a slight detour for them, en route back to Paris. A shameless plug for these two jokesters:
www.aeropaint.frAnd on Friday, it's off to Belle Ile!